God doesn't want us to constantly condemn ourselves. He says repent and change. More than anything He just longs for a meaningful relationship with us. It needs to go beyond just simply thinking about it. God wants us to make an investment....to put deposits in.....so that He can make withdrawals.
Matthew 6:33 ESV / 72 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.
Romans 10:17 ESV / 46 So faith comes from hearing, and hearing through the word of Christ.
1 Peter 2:2 ESV / 29 Like newborn infants, long for the pure spiritual milk, that by it you may grow up into salvation--
Matthew 6:6 ESV / 37 But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.